What I focused on was the future.

During those months, I picked up extra shifts, not because I needed the money, but because I needed to be useful in moving.

I went back to school part-time, completing a certification I had put off for years.

I signed a lease on a new apartment, smaller, brighter, entirely mine, and I moved out of the place where I had waited for someone who had already stopped coming home.

My sister drove down the weekend I moved in.

We unpacked boxes and ate takeout sitting on the floor, and she did not ask me how I was feeling in a way that required a careful answer.

She just stayed, and that was enough.

The divorce was finalized on a gray Thursday morning in April.

I signed the paperwork in my lawyer’s office, shook her hand, and walked out onto the street feeling lighter than I had expected.

My husband, my ex-husband, now had moved in with Megan.

They were, as far as I knew, still together.

I did not track it.

I had stopped tracking things that were no longer my concern.

What I thought about instead, walking to my car that Thursday, was the version of myself that had waited 4 years.

That woman had done nothing wrong.

She had been patient and faithful and trusting, and she had been taken advantage of by someone who could not find the courage to be honest.

I was not ashamed of her.

I was not embarrassed by how long she had believed.

But I was done being her.

3 months after the divorce, I was back at the same farmers market on a Saturday morning.

Same bread table.

I bought the rye this time because I had been the one who knew it was better all along.

Diane found me at the vegetable stand a few minutes later.

We had stayed in touch awkwardly at first, and then with the ease that comes when someone has seen you clearly during a hard time and you’ve both survived it.

“You look good,” she said, and she meant it the way people mean it when the good is real.

“I feel okay,” I told her. “More than okay, actually.”

She nodded.

“Good. You deserve more than okay.”

I paid for my carrots.

I walked home in the October morning, bag on my shoulder, thinking about the certification exam I had scheduled for the following month and the weekend trip my sister and I were planning for December and the small plant I had bought for my new kitchen window sill that was, against all my expectations, actually starting to grow.

I had been faithful for 4 years.

I had stayed and waited and believed.

And in the end, the only thing that had saved me was the same thing that had always been there: myself.

That turned out to be enough.

More than enough.

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